In a "real" army, idiots like the guy who maid his maid carry his field bag and this stupid fool would be punished good and proper instead of being "counselled". Talk is CHEAP. All talk and no action makes our army soft - looks like it's making the cadets soft in the head too. Or are our young people too free and have nothing better to do? Obviously their parents, teachers and elders don't teach them how to think, how to behave respectably and most of all, they are obviously NOT taught about respect. Shame on all these stupid guys and on their families, teachers, trainers, etc. If we keep raising young Singaporeans like this, our country is doomed!